Do the things you love
In the best way possible, and magic can happen. Something I refer to quite a bit, and I truly believe in it. It is something that has changed my life on multiple occasions. Sometimes I get asked about it. What does it mean? And how does it work? Well, it’s quite simple.
The realisation of this phrase first started over 15 years ago; I joined a forum and posted that I would mostly read, as I didn’t feel able to contribute. The opposite happened. I became an active member and made many connections. More importantly, I started to explore photography. I spent many evenings trying different light setups, backgrounds, etc. Because of that my photography got better, a lot better, and at some point I was asked to do commercial work.
It gave me the opportunity to get some experience with commercial photography and slowly build a portfolio. Only 2 years later I quit my job and became a full-time photographer. This also helped me in my private life and with the photos you can see on my social media and this website. I just love capturing life and creating visual memories of it.
As always, I’m drifting away from the topic, so back to the message I’m trying to share. Sometimes you start something randomly, without a goal, and later on realise it helped to achieve something bigger. And I think that’s an important message to share. Instead of wasting countless hours watching TV or doomscrolling online, do something. Go create, add, experience, live life! It only makes the world a better place.
Trough the years I’ve realised that I shaped my life by doing what I enjoy. The only thing I struggled with were my fetishes. I could never share them with previous partners. Being quite the introvert doesn’t help either. Ever since I got my first digital camera, I started capturing my fetish life. This is how I documented my personal journey. The years I started exploring photography also greatly helped with the visuals of my fetish life.
Early 2015 I got a phone call; my old man had passed away suddenly. It shook my world upside down and made me rethink the purpose of life. Going about every day, kind of living in automatic mode, hiding my true self. It was that week that I started sharing my images with the world, and the rest is history. By sharing my images, I found my true love.
It’s just a message I want to share with the world. Do the things you love, in the best way possible, and magic can happen. We all know those ‘keyboard warriors’, who share nothing but negativity. If you actually share something good or positive, it can lead to greater things. It’ll enrich your life and potentially the lives of others. Magic can happen.
Fetics
