Our First Fetish Date
In the past years I’ve often heard people saying that we are lucky and how they hope to find the same. My usual advice is to get active in some way. I strongly believe in ‘do the things you love in the best way possible, and magic can happen’. This mentality has been life-changing for me on multiple occasions. You will only get noticed if you are visible. The more visible you are, the more likely it is that it will lead to something. This could be anything from building friendships and business opportunities to, in this case, finding true love, and our first fetish date was the foundation.
As the follower count on my socials grew steadily, this also meant that there would be more interactions. Either through comments on your images or private messages directly. Sometimes you get new followers that like a bunch of images, and there was one that turned out to become the start of a new adventure. Usually I check a profile when someone likes a bunch of images. So when I saw a flood of likes from an account called Fetish_Erotica, my curiosity was triggered.
How do you date someone from abroad?
Looking at her account, I saw a bunch of selfies in full rubber, masks, restraints, etc. Somewhat mysterious, but it definitely sparked my interest. Especially for that ‘just the quiet girl from next door’ in her profile. So I took a screenshot of my notifications and sent it privately, saying, “Thanks for all the ❤️”. That’s where our conversation started, and it hasn’t stopped since. A few weeks later we had our first fetish date.
In the following weeks we texted endlessly, and the idea to meet IRL quickly came up. But how do you date someone from abroad? Especially when you realise it’s your first fetish date. Do a one-day return for a short meetup? Or do you take the deep plunge and see what happens? We decided to go for the latter option, as we had nothing to lose. The worst-case scenario would mean for her to be spending some time alone in a hotel before flying back home to the other side of the pond.
First Fetish Date
But our first fetish date turned out to be an amazing week. So without knowing much about each other, apart from texting on Instagram for 2 weeks, we finally got to see the live version at Schiphol Airport. It was never awkward, and we quickly learnt that we both were exactly the same IRL. The following days we spent mostly in latex, doing at least one photoshoot a day. Most importantly, we got to learn more about each other, especially that the trust was right there. From the first moment our eyes connected, full trust.
And that is important when you do some pretty intense restrained positions for photoshoots. More photos of our first fetish date week can be found here. Imagine visiting a stranger and being restrained in a helpless position with a gag and blindfold in place. In the end our first fetish date lasted nearly a week, and it set the first level of the foundation for our relationship. Something that quickly grew stronger and stronger over the following months.
Because of the distance and busy work schedule, we didn’t see each other as much as we wanted to, but we always made the most of it, and more importantly, we made it work. Having a long-distance relationship isn’t the easiest thing. So after two years we decided to live together. No more flying across the pond, No more weeks of being alone. We only had to decide who would move where, and that decision was made quite easily.
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